Or have we ever wondered why women in our society get older before men?
Why does a daughter start seeing her mother's sister a few years after getting married? The body of the most beautiful woman becomes shapeless and ugly before time. The man appears his own wife's younger brother a few years after the marriage.
Who is responsible for this situation, our society, the physical constitution of men or women?
A woman may be physically weaker than a man, but nature has placed in her body all the abilities that enable her to not only perform the duty of reproduction but also to maintain her structure in a way that is attractive to the man. And be the cause of happiness.
But why is it that in our society the opposite is true?
We all want the girl to get rid of her marriage obligation as soon as possible so the second or third relationship gets a certificate of yes. Then usually this prayer is also offered from the depths of the heart at the time of departure that now your funeral will rise from this house. After marriage, a woman is considered to be the first duty of the breeding generation, with additional responsibilities including husband's service, in-laws' upbringing, child-rearing, and full responsibility of the household.
A woman who gives birth to six children in seven years and carries out the rest of her responsibilities reaches many milestones, leaving behind the speed of time. The 30-year-old girl now appears to be the sister of her 55-year-old mother.
In this case, will the man consider the woman worthy of affection?
Now this woman has a responsibility for the man, she does not need it. She wouldn't like to hang out with him. The taste of humor disappears, the entertainment opportunities become like the moon of Eid.
A woman grows old physically, but do her heart and soul also grow old? Doesn't all the desires and aspirations that are in the hearts of young men change in his heart?
One of the endless tragedies of our society is that the problems of women in our country are considered to be limited to purity, chastity, intimacy, special days, and childbirth. And all of our "research" is about these issues.
Women's emotions, desires, psychology, and needs do not get the certificate of problems.
We have to think about the reason why a girl who has been called Baba's Ladli for twenty years at home, after five years of marriage, falls from Baba's Ladli's position and becomes an old woman running the family.
In our society, women do not want freedom from men.
She wants to live with men. She wants to see all the colors of life beside him
Therefore, men must include women in all the (legitimate) desires they have for themselves. It is not just a matter of earning a living.
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